- Start your routine early enough to enjoy it. If you or your toddler is over-tired, reading together quickly becomes a chore, and not the nice calming activity bedtime routines need.
- Turn off any distractions – TV, cell phones, electronic toys, etc.
- Avoid turning your bedtime routine into a teaching lesson. It’s okay to engage your child and ask questions, but bedtime is not the best time to test your child’s reading skills. They’re tired and so are you!
- Agree on a limit to the number of books you’ll read ahead of time. Or your toddler may beg for “just one more” – the last thing either of you need at night is an argument.
- Let your daughter pick the story.
- Get the whole family involved. Mom, dad, big brother, or grandma are great bedtime story readers too. Routines help others put your child to bed when you aren’t available.
- Pick a calming place to read the story. Especially if you have siblings with different bedtimes, a noisy living room won’t be as calming for your son as reading right next to him tucked into bed.